
Grimes Urges Elon Musk to Respond to Her amid Their Son’s ‘Medical Crisis’
Grimes and Elon Musk have made headlines following a plea from the singer to the X social platform owner regarding the well-being of one of their three children.
On February 20, 2025, in now-deleted tweets on X, Grimes accused her ex-boyfriend and father of her three children, Elon Musk, of ignoring her phone calls amid a “medical crisis” involving one of their children.
The “Genesis” singer wrote, “I am sorry to do this publicly but it is no longer acceptable to ignore this situation.” She continued, “This requires immediate attention. If you don’t want to talk to me can you please designate or hire someone who can do that [so] we can move forward on solving this. This is urgent, Elon.”
She further explained, “I’m not giving any details but he won’t respond to texts calls or emails and has skipped every meeting and our child will suffer life long impairment if he doesn’t respond asap, so I need him to [expletive] respond and if I have to apply public pressure then I guess that’s where we are at. [sic]”
Grimes, a Canadian musician whose real name is Claire Boucher, did not specify which of her children was in need. The 36-year-old and Elon Musk share two sons, X Æ A-Xii, four, and Techno Mechanicus, two, as well as a daughter, Exa Dark Sideræl, three.
The 53-year-old SpaceX Chief Executive Officer (CEO) did not respond to her now-deleted plea. Since then, Grimes has shared several posts on X. Some X users were confused when they were unable to see her previous posts and suspected that her account was shadowbanned.

Elon Musk and Grimes at the Space X Hyperloop Pod Competition, in Hawthorne, California, on July 22, 2018 | Source: Getty Images
Others were puzzled by the absence of her comments on the platform, which is owned by Elon. The following day, Grimes explained that she was deleting her posts “because if they’re being shadow banned and not eliciting a response then all it is is a media circus at the expense of the kids.”
This isn’t the first time that the vocalist and businessman, who dated from 2018 to 2022, have clashed. On February 11, 2025, Elon brought X Æ A-Xii with him to the Oval Office, where they joined President Donald Trump for a media briefing to discuss the newly established Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE).
For the press briefing, Elon wore a long black coat over a dark outfit, accessorizing with a matching “Make America Great Again” cap. X Æ A-Xii was dressed in a beige overcoat with a navy blue ensemble underneath and wore a gold chain as he stood confidently beside his father.
The young boy appeared to entertain both Elon and Donald, who was seated at the Resolute Desk in a dark suit and blue tie. An X user who reacted to Elon’s son’s presence at the event wrote, “Lil X was very polite today! You raised him well. He was so cute when he told DJT ‘please [sic] forgive me, I need to pee.’🥰.”

Elon Musk with his son X Æ A-Xii standing next to President Donald Trump in the Oval Office in Washington, D.C. on February 11, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
The boy’s mother saw the post and revealed she wasn’t aware that her ex would be making a public appearance with their child. She responded by writing a now widely discussed message on X about it.
Grimes said, “He should not be in public like this. I did not see this, thank u [sic] for alerting me. But I’m glad he was polite. Sigh.”
When other social media users saw her post, they quickly shared their thoughts.

Elon Musk speaking as X Æ A-XII and Donald Trump look on. | Source: Getty Images
One supporter wrote, “No, he shouldn’t be. You need to get tough, girl. He’s your baby, not Elon’s pet,” while another noted, “Every time I see him, I wish he was with you, and his siblings. He has a great spirit. But I am worried for his influences and safety.”

X Æ A-Xii stands in front of Elon Musk during an executive order signing. | Source: Getty images
Someone else remarked, “Is there anything you can do? It is quite disturbing that he uses X in that way. Trump seems to be getting annoyed too, not good for the kid to be in the middle of all this chaos.”

X Æ A-Xii, Elon Musk, and Donald Trump. | Source: Getty Images
More people sided with Grimes as another netizen declared, “She’s right!” Taking to Facebook, someone reiterated, “She’s absolutely right, he’s a child, not a prop!!” Sharing the same sentiments, a commenter stated, “I’m actually with her on this one lol.”

Elon Musk and Grimes arrive for the Met Gala at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York on May 7, 2018. | Source: Getty Images
Praising Grimes’ efforts to protect her child’s privacy, a supporter commended, “Yes mommy, take control of your baby!” At the same time, an unsurprised social media user shared, “Was expecting something like this!” Someone else defended the artist, writing, “She’s protecting her child. The child doesn’t need to be made a part of the spectacle that’s going on!”

Donald Trump looking at X Æ A-Xii. | Source: Getty images
Grimes has been keeping her distance from Elon ever since they broke up. She and the Tesla CEO welcomed X in 2020, with Elon sharing a photo of himself holding the newborn wrapped in a hospital blanket.